The best of results and the worst of fears, all in one day.
On a summer's morning, I was struggling to get Demeter's laundry done, and, tussle concluded, returned to our place to find the Resident Fan Boy and the Jolly Not-So-Green Giant setting up an enormous big screen television in our living room.
This was not a shock. The Resident Fan Boy has been promising me for two years that we would join the ranks of those with flat screens - as my eye-sight steadily deteriorates. I sent him examples and gently hinted, but he always said that he was too busy with his church volunteering and accompanying younger daughter to her singing lessons. He decided that he needed the guidance of brother-in-law the Jolly Not-So-Green Giant, who works in IT for a provincial governmental department. Every time my Double Leo Sister and her husband visited, the topic would be raised and deferred.
Finally, the appointment had been made, the device purchased, and now the technical argot was in full swing.
The Jolly Not-So-Green Giant is young enough to belong to a different cohort, and was, once again, earnestly trying to sell me on Netflix. (Every time I investigate Netflix, I'm mostly impressed by how unimpressed I am.)
Having, after some fiddling, located our cable service (which provides us with HBO and Crave, thank you very much), it seemed they couldn't connect our DVD player. Now, this is something that clearly mystifies J N-S-G G, who streams everything, but I've been dreaming, for more than two years, of being able to watch my favourite things on a big screen.
As the fellas sank into another discussion consisting of strings of letters and numbers, Double Leo Sister quizzed me about lunch. I checked with younger daughter, who had retreated to her room, but she wasn't forthcoming, so DLS and I decided on the local Greek restaurant. I was nervous about Demeter waiting for us, as the installation stretched on and on, so I set out for Demeter's apartment. DLS followed with her dog, and I tried to clear my head of the jangle of the upheaval.
We should have taken younger daughter with us.
We were accompanying Demeter to the restaurant, in a slow descent down Cook Street, when my phone rang. The Resident Fan Boy was calling to say he couldn't find younger daughter. Or the cat.
I gave a quick update to DLS and doubled back to our place. Apparently younger daughter had fled with her purse when she overheard her uncle telling her father that the DVD problem could be resolved, but, as he laughed dismissively, the VHS player was out of the question. (The J N-S-G G has always derived derisive pleasure out of our ancient televisions, DVD collections and residual video cassettes.) Not a problem for us, but younger daughter, being on the spectrum, abhors change, and there are a couple of VHS tapes she treasures, mainly for what she associates with them. Neither man noticed that she'd slipped out, until they were getting ready to join us for lunch. They soon realized that she hadn't taken her phone. Younger daughter has fled before, but not since we returned to Victoria. She does know the neighbourhood, having walked most of it.
But how could she have taken the cat? He weighs fourteen pounds, I wondered miserably, more resentful than ever that the RFB had involved his complex and complicating in-laws in what should have been a relatively simple purchase.
I arrived to find my husband uselessly pacing the apartment. He had located the cat, who had taken his safety perch on the very top of younger daughter's armoire. Shortly afterwards, the J N-S-G G phoned the RFB with the news that younger daughter had shown up at the restaurant. Double Leo Sister came in the van to pick us up, but I chose the five-minute walk as a balm and therapy - and a play for time. I had a bit of stress and irritation to walk off, both of which I couldn't afford to show.
If only the RFB had bought the television on his own, I grizzled. He told me later that he actually prayed they wouldn't be able to fit it in their van, so he could have it delivered and installed later.
At the restaurant, younger daughter apologized and told us she was considering a walk in the park, but thought that would make her late for lunch. I handed her the phone, gently explaining that she should always have it handy, and congratulated her on remembering to go to the Greek restaurant.
We brought Demeter back, and I was able to show her a Repair Shop she'd seen, but this time in all the glory and splendour of a 65-inch high definition screen. DLS took the RFB to London Drugs to pick up an inexpensive compatible DVD player, and I showed Demeter a sampling of Wolf Hall, which we'd been showing her in parts on her Thursday night dinner visits. What had been dark, and difficult to follow for her, was now huge, clear, and comprehensible - just as I'd prayed it would be.
Finally, to my secret relief, they departed.
I feel grateful - and exasperated at the same time. Over the past month, we've been learning how the new toy works and revelling in the clarity and detail - particularly such things as ballets and musicals. Even old Fred Astaire movies have a three-dimensional look to them. It's like being by a window and looking in on far-removed times and places.
However, there is a price, beyond the monetary one. I can never express anything other than delight, acknowledgement, and appreciation for the service rendered, as traumatising as it was.
But you know, there was always that particular elephant in the room. Now it can watch TV.
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